One of the many unusual experiences that can occur in an otherwise normal pregnancy is false labor. Braxton Hicks contractions, named after the doctor who first described them, are false contractions that mimic the pain of real labor but do not cause any physical changes that lead to birth. Especially for first-time mothers, it can be very confusing to tell the difference between real and false labor.

To understand false labor, it is important first to know how true labor progresses. True labor refers to a series of changes the body goes through over hours, and in some cases days, to deliver the baby. It can last anywhere from twelve to eighteen hours and is marked by increasingly strong and frequent waves of pain in the belly, known as contractions, with short breaks in between. Labor may begin with light contractions occurring every thirty minutes and lasting about twenty seconds. These early contractions are often mistaken for other types of discomfort. What makes true labor distinct is that the contractions become progressively more intense, longer, and closer together. The pain consistently builds over time rather than fading.

Doctors often refer to the “5-1-1 rule” to describe the point at which a pregnant woman should go to the hospital. This means contractions that occur every five minutes, last for one minute, and have been continuing for at least one hour. This steady, rhythmic tightening of the uterus helps gradually open the cervix and prepare for birth. Another sign that true labor has begun is the release of the mucus plug, a thick membrane that seals the cervix during pregnancy. It acts as a barrier protecting the fetus and naturally comes out when the body begins preparing for delivery.

False labor, on the other hand, does not share many of these features. While true labor is a coordinated, purposeful process that brings about gradual physical changes leading to birth, Braxton Hicks contractions are irregular and unpredictable. Their timing, frequency, and duration vary, and they lack the steady rhythm of real labor. The pain from Braxton Hicks contractions may come and go at random intervals, two minutes apart, then thirty, then ten. Whereas true labor pains often start as aches in the back and move forward, false pains may be felt only in the front. Unlike true labor, false labor contractions often dissipate with movement, rest, or stretching. They may also occur much earlier in pregnancy, sometimes in the second or early third trimester, whereas natural labor almost always happens at full term.

Even if you think you can recognize false labor, it is always important to contact your doctor or midwife if you are uncertain. They can help determine whether what you are experiencing is normal or a sign that labor has truly begun. Understanding these differences can help you stay calm, avoid unnecessary stress, and know when it is time to welcome your baby into the world.

Writer: Hosaena Gebru

Labor is one of the most stressful experiences a woman can go through. It affects her body, mind, and emotions all at once. With all that, and a newborn who needs constant feeding, changing, and soothing, the idea of sex is often the last thing on her mind. Adjusting to motherhood, recovering from childbirth, and dealing with exhaustion can make intimacy feel overwhelming or even impossible.

In general, for women who have delivered vaginally without complications, doctors recommend waiting about six weeks before resuming sexual intercourse. This allows the uterus to return to its normal size, bleeding to stop, and tissues to heal. Women who have experienced tears and required episiotomy stitches usually need more time for the wound to fully heal. The same is true for those who delivered through surgery. Engaging in sex before the body has healed can cause pain, reopen wounds, and increase the risk of infection. It is essential to wait until a healthcare professional confirms that recovery is progressing well and gives the green light.

Once the waiting period is over, it is important to approach sex gently and patiently. Even if sex has been a familiar part of the relationship for years, pregnancy and childbirth can bring many changes. Hormonal fluctuations in the postpartum period can lead to vaginal dryness, mood changes, fatigue, and body aches. Some women may also feel disconnected from their bodies or struggle with self-image, or even fall into a state of depression. Taking time, using lubrication if needed, and communicating openly with your partner can help make the experience more comfortable. Listening to your body and stopping if anything feels painful or uncomfortable is key. Consent and emotional safety are just as important as physical readiness. Sex is not something done to a woman, but something shared and enjoyed together. Both partners should feel ready and comfortable.

Sadly, the Me Too movement has highlighted deeply troubling stories of women being pressured, coerced, or even forced into sex soon after childbirth. This is never acceptable. Respect, empathy, and open communication should be the foundation of intimacy. A woman’s consent should always be enthusiastic and freely given, especially during such a vulnerable time.

Another important point to remember is contraception. It might seem unlikely to get pregnant right after giving birth, but it is still possible. Breastfeeding can delay the return of fertility, especially within the first six months, but it is not a guarantee. Ovulation can occur before a woman’s first postpartum period, which means pregnancy is still possible. To avoid an unplanned pregnancy, safe sex practices such as using condoms or other forms of contraception should be considered.

Sex after delivery is not something that should be rushed. Every woman’s recovery is different, and every couple moves at their own pace. With patience, communication, mutual respect, and care, intimacy can become a positive and healing part of life once again.

Writer:  Hosaena Gebru

If you’ve ever seen someone wear a tiny pink ribbon in October, you’ve seen a symbol that changed how the world talks about breast cancer. But behind that small ribbon lies a powerful story,  one that began with quiet acts of courage and grew into a global movement of awareness, hope, and, at times, controversy.

Before the 1980s, breast cancer was something many women didn’t talk about openly. The topic was wrapped in silence and stigma, often treated as a private shame rather than a public health issue. Even in hospitals, patients rarely heard the words “breast cancer” spoken aloud. That began to change when survivors and women’s health advocates started to demand transparency, better research, and dignity for women facing the disease.

The pink ribbon as we know it began in the early 1990s. A woman named Charlotte Haley, who survived breast cancer, made peach-colored ribbons by hand to raise attention to how little money was going into prevention research. Her idea caught on and soon after, companies like Estée Lauder and The Susan G. Komen Foundation adopted a new version of her symbol: the pink ribbon. It became the universal sign of breast cancer awareness.

By the mid-1990s, the pink ribbon had become a universal sign of solidarity and awareness. It encouraged open conversations, early screening, and national campaigns that helped millions of women get diagnosed earlier  and live longer. For the first time, the world began to see breast cancer not as a hidden illness, but as a shared human struggle. Hospitals launched awareness drives, governments funded mammogram programs, and survivors began sharing their stories with courage instead of shame.

Yet, as the movement grew, so did the debate around it. Some critics began to question whether the symbol had lost part of its original purpose.  Some argued that it became too commercial, used by brands to sell products during “Breast Cancer Awareness Month” without meaningful contributions to research or patient care. Others worry it focuses too much on optimism and not enough on the real struggles patients face.

Beyond its color and campaigns, the ribbon stands for something more profound,  the courage of women who refuse to be silent. It honors those who have survived, those still fighting, and those who were lost but never forgotten. For young people in Ethiopia, its message remains deeply relevant: talk about your health, learn the signs, and encourage the women in your life to get screened early. Because awareness isn’t just about wearing pink,  it’s about compassion, honesty, and the collective strength to protect one another.

Writer- Bezawit Elias

Breast cancer is not only a physical battle; it’s an emotional journey that changes how a woman sees herself, her body, and her future. Behind every brave smile, there are waves of feelings that words can hardly describe.

1st: The First Shock
When a woman first hears the word “cancer,” time seems to stop. It’s as if the world suddenly becomes silent, filled with fear, confusion, and disbelief.
“I couldn’t even hear what the doctor said after that word,” one woman recalls. “All I could think was, this can’t be happening to me.”
Many ask themselves, “Why me?” or “What did I do wrong?” It’s a moment that reshapes everything she thought she knew about life.

2nd: Fear and Uncertainty
There’s fear, not just of the illness itself, but of what’s to come. Fear of losing a part of her body that symbolizes femininity. Fear of the treatments.
Fear of being seen differently. Uncertainty about tomorrow becomes a constant companion.
As one survivor said, “Every morning, I’d wake up wondering what version of me would face the mirror today,  the strong one or the scared one.”

3rd: The Emotional Rollercoaster
Some days are filled with hope; others, with tears. There’s strength in the morning and exhaustion by night. The emotions swing between courage and sadness, between wanting to fight and wanting to rest. “It’s okay,” one woman reminds herself. “It’s human.”

4th: The Changing Self-Image
Breast cancer often challenges how women see themselves. Hair loss, scars, and body changes can deeply affect confidence.
But many women say this journey also teaches them to love themselves beyond appearance, to value the power within rather than the reflection in the mirror. “I stopped seeing scars,” says another survivor. “I started seeing survival.”

5th: Support and Sisterhood
Amid the pain, there’s something beautiful: the support of family, friends, and fellow survivors. A hug, a prayer, or a message saying “you’re not alone” becomes medicine for the heart. Through shared tears and laughter, women find strength in one another.

6th: Hope and Healing
With time, courage grows stronger than fear.
The journey of breast cancer becomes one of rediscovery, of strength, purpose, and the beauty of life itself.
Women come out of it not just as survivors, but as warriors who inspire others to never give up.

At Letena Ethiopia, we believe every woman’s story matters. Breast cancer awareness is not only about early detection; it’s also about understanding the emotional battles behind the diagnosis and reminding every woman that she is seen, loved, and never alone

Writer- Hermon Israel